Comments on Clever Girl Goes Blog: Regret is the best revenge.

Amen to all that! That's how I think exactly! I ...

2008-10-15T21:48:00.000-07:00

Amen to all that! That's how I think exactly! I DO want to be the one that "got away" and the one those ex-guys secretly think about. I know in truth they don't, but it does make one feel better.

I think like this CONSTANTLY. I hope they realize...

2008-10-10T13:45:00.000-07:00

I think like this CONSTANTLY. I hope they realize how much they missed me.

i too have a "big ex", though not of the marrying ...

2008-10-06T18:53:00.000-07:00

i too have a "big ex", though not of the marrying kind. i find myself in the midst of an stron, wonderfully crazy relationship much sooner than i expected after the big break.

reading over your past few entries about the possible sightings and angst of said sightings made me smile, and provided me with much needed hope and reassurance.

...thanks. very very much.

This was all so perfectly well said. You're my her...

2008-10-02T13:57:00.000-07:00

This was all so perfectly well said.

You're my hero for this one.

I LOVE this post! I agree almost 100% with what yo...

2008-10-01T13:56:00.000-07:00

I LOVE this post! I agree almost 100% with what you said in regards to ex's. No matter what you want to be remembered and it feels nice (even if it is a fantasy!) to feel like you are the one they let "get away". I love the way you put it and that you are one of those people honest enough to say it. Most wouldn't have the guts. I applaude you for writing this! It's great! (I am not sure i can spell today why can't comment sections have spell check?)

Anyway time to leave work but wanted to write something quick because I really enjoyed this post!
Thanks!

Wow... when you said "We want to make sure we've l...

2008-09-30T10:29:00.000-07:00

Wow... when you said "We want to make sure we've left our mark", that really sums it all up. Great post!

Your honesty is amazing. I'm so glad that you and ...

2008-09-30T09:09:00.000-07:00

Your honesty is amazing. I'm so glad that you and the Hubs are able to talk about these things. A lot of couples are not able to talk about feelings; especially the exes and it is taboo. I'm also glad that you spoke on our "humaness" not a word, but you spoke that it is human to care what others think, even I who has slightly evolved from caring what others think, I still care about it to an extent. We can't let our past dictate the atmosphere of our present, but we must recognize and deal with it when it does. Clever Girl Goes Blog you've done it again.

It's great that you have a relationship void of pe...

2008-09-30T00:50:00.000-07:00

It's great that you have a relationship void of petty jealousy. My ex was hugely jealous and it was extremely destructive, ultimately it caused the end of the relationship. My new man is far more chilled out and mature. Hurray for the sensible ones like him and your hubs! :) x

I like the way you write. You just say it how it i...

2008-09-29T20:02:00.000-07:00

I like the way you write.
You just say it how it is.

I absolutely LOOOOOOOOVE the last line of this pos...

2008-09-29T19:32:00.000-07:00

I absolutely LOOOOOOOOVE the last line of this post. It's so true and absolutely perfect.

Your writing is amazing! Just the simple way that ...

2008-09-29T17:59:00.000-07:00

Your writing is amazing! Just the simple way that you are able to take one emotion, one instant and dissect it is incredible and I mean this as a pure compliment! Every time I read one of your blogs I either feel like I an right there and/or I feel like you just blogged about my life!

Another witty and fun post!

I don't get it!

2008-09-29T16:47:00.000-07:00

I don't get it!

well hey that's great the big ex didn't show up an...

2008-09-29T15:52:00.000-07:00

well hey that's great the big ex didn't show up and you got to have some fun. but i agree, all exes are tricky. i like to tease my bf about his exes when we see them, it can't be helped :)

LOVE it. Hits home for a lot of ladies (and men I'...

2008-09-29T15:00:00.000-07:00

LOVE it. Hits home for a lot of ladies (and men I'm sure). You're sayin' the stuff that we all think inside.. and maybe share with a bff. Love it!

This is a great blog, I can really relate to this ...

2008-09-29T13:50:00.000-07:00

This is a great blog, I can really relate to this one! ;)

I am officially wowed.Well put.

2008-09-29T12:43:00.000-07:00

I am officially wowed.

Well put.

Well said! I know where you are coming from siste...

2008-09-29T12:05:00.000-07:00

Well said! I know where you are coming from sister. Great blog, keep it up, great entertainment for me daily as I eat my lunch. :)

"It's human nature to care what people think about...

2008-09-29T11:03:00.000-07:00

"It's human nature to care what people think about you. We were "blessed" with self-awareness, so it just comes with the territory. I can accept this."

Right on, Tia!

"If you've been loved by me, you don't forget it."...

2008-09-29T10:51:00.000-07:00

"If you've been loved by me, you don't forget it."

QUOTE.
OF.
THE.
YEAR.

You totally just summed up every emotion I have or have had at every ex sighting.

:)

I can completely relate to all the feelings you ex...

2008-09-29T10:13:00.000-07:00

I can completely relate to all the feelings you expressed in this post. You put it all into words so well.

Great post! And your right we all want to be the o...

2008-09-29T10:01:00.000-07:00

Great post! And your right we all want to be the one that got away! I still dread the day I run into my X.....

I absolutely LOVE reading your blog. I will admit...

2008-09-29T09:42:00.000-07:00

I absolutely LOVE reading your blog. I will admit to being a blog-aholic. No shame there. I completely related to this particular post. My own BIG EX has moved to another city entirely. That makes it so much easier to go out looking on the frumpy side when I feel yucky. And, I know I'm the one that got away for him...he's admitted it. *grin*

I've never forgotten it. No matter how hard I've ...

2008-09-29T09:36:00.000-07:00

I've never forgotten it.

No matter how hard I've tried and how much I've drunk... hahaha!

That handbag? Is slammin'! And Hubs is a hottie, ESPECIALLY now that we got rid of any clothing he had when he came into the marriage! :D

At least you looked hot for the hubs.

2008-09-29T09:30:00.001-07:00

At least you looked hot for the hubs.

I understand 100% that feeling of wanting them to ...

2008-09-29T09:30:00.000-07:00

I understand 100% that feeling of wanting them to rememeber, Im like that with my ex. Its annoying to say the least.

Anyway, I really really love your blog! You're a fantastic writer, though I'm sure all of your newly found fans think so (and say so, obviously.) I look forward to reading your new posts! So keep them coming!!